Before the Sermon

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Before We Read

Have you ever told someone, “Just follow me”? Then you pull out and drive like you’re the only one who knows where you’re going. Fast. Lane changes. Three turns in a row. You check the rearview mirror and they’re gone, somewhere back at a red light wondering what just happened.

I'm afraid I did that to some of you last week. I introduced you to Abraham and then took you on a road trip through the whole Bible, showing you why the covenant God made with him matters so much.

I still believe that's highly important, and I believe many of you walked out with questions. I'd love to talk more. Find me after the service or send me a note this week. I mean that.

But this morning, I believe the right thing is to slow down and keep moving forward in Genesis, one stretch of road at a time.

Quick review

• At Babel, humanity tried to make a name for itself and avoid being scattered.
• God scattered them, and then called one man out of the scattered.
• To Abram, God promised a land, a family, and a blessing for every nation.
• Babel tried to make a name. God gave one. And Abram went.

What we’ll see today

• Abram at his best: building altars in a land that isn't his yet.
• Abram at his worst: in Egypt, afraid, lying to save himself.
• And God: stepping in to keep a promise Abram nearly gave away.

Why it matters

Most of us live somewhere between the altar and Egypt. This passage answers a question every believer eventually asks: when my faith slips, does God’s promise slip with it?

Scripture reading

Genesis 12:6–20

Introduction

If you’ve ever walked a little one across a busy parking lot, you know how this works. They reach up and grab your hand, and in their mind they’re holding on to you. But every parent knows the secret: you’re not holding their hand. You’re holding their wrist. [Pause] Little hands slip. They trip. They see something and pull away. And when a car comes around the corner, their safety was never in their grip. It was in yours.

Most of us think faith works the other way. We think it's our grip that keeps us. Obey well, pray enough, stay consistent, and you're safe. Slip, and you're on your own.

“If I hold on to God, God will hold on to me.”

Then life gets hard, often right after you obeyed, and your grip starts to slip. The layoff. The diagnosis. The marriage that gets harder, not easier. And the question forms: Did I lose hold of God? Or has God let go of me?

Abram is about to find out. He just did the hardest obedient thing of his life. This morning we'll see his grip at its strongest, altars across the land, and his grip let go completely, in Egypt. And we'll discover who was really holding whom.

Big Idea

God’s promise does not rest on our grip. It rests on His.

Bottom line: It was never your grip. It was His.

Say it with me. You’ll hear it again.

• Faith that rests in a promise (Genesis 12:6–9)
• Fear that makes us our own savior (Genesis 12:10–16)
• Grace that rescues the one who can't rescue himself (Genesis 12:17–20)

Keep your Bible open and watch for one word: “the LORD.” Where it shows up, and where it disappears.

We’ll close with a hymn written over a hundred years ago by a woman who understood this. One line says it all:

Hold on to that. Let's go to the text.

1. Faith is worship that rests in a promise it can’t yet see.

Genesis 12:6–9

Explanation

Genesis 12:6 “6 And Abram passed through the land unto the place of Sichem, unto the plain of Moreh. And the Canaanite was then in the land.”

• Shechem is the crossroads at the center of Canaan. Abram walks straight to the heart of the land.
• Moreh means “teacher.” The great tree of Moreh was likely a Canaanite place of worship and instruction.
• “The Canaanite was then in the land.” Abram owns not one square foot. The promise and the reality don't match yet.

Genesis 12:7 “7 And the LORD appeared unto Abram, and said, Unto thy seed will I give this land: and there builded he an altar unto the LORD, who appeared unto him.”

• Count it: “the LORD” twice in one verse. God appears, God speaks, God promises.
• Abram doesn't seize or negotiate. He builds an altar, setting up worship of the true God at the Canaanites' place of teaching.

Genesis 12:8–9 “8 And he removed from thence unto a mountain on the east of Bethel, and pitched his tent, having Bethel on the west, and Hai on the east: and there he builded an altar unto the LORD, and called upon the name of the LORD. 9 And Abram journeyed, going on still toward the south.”

• “The LORD” twice more. Another altar, and this time he “called upon the name of the LORD.”
• Abram still has not spoken a recorded word in Genesis. His faith so far is all action toward God: going, building, calling.
• A tent and an altar. The tent says, “I'm passing through.” The altar says, “This belongs to God.”

The Point

Real faith marks God’s promise with worship while it is still only a promise.

Application

• You live in a “the Canaanite was then in the land” world: offices, campuses, and neighborhoods that don't share your God.
• Faith doesn't wait for the culture to be friendly before it worships openly.
• Where are your altars? Is there a visible, regular place in your week (your calendar, your home, your budget) that says this belongs to the LORD?

Bottom line: It was never your grip. It was His.

Transition: Four times in three verses, the LORD is named. Now watch what happens when the famine comes.

2. When fear rules the heart, we become our own savior.

Genesis 12:10–16

Explanation

Genesis 12:10 “10 And there was a famine in the land: and Abram went down into Egypt to sojourn there; for the famine was grievous in the land.”

• Canaan depends on rain; Egypt has the Nile. In famine, going to Egypt was the sensible survival move. Nothing about it looks rebellious.
• It comes right after obedience. Testing often follows the yes; it doesn't cancel it.
• “Went down”: down in elevation, and down in every other way.

Read verses 10–16 again and listen for one word: “the LORD.” It isn’t there. Not once.

• No altar. No calling on His name. No asking God whether to go. Survival mode doesn’t pray; it plans.

Genesis 12:11–13 “11 And it came to pass, when he was come near to enter into Egypt, that he said unto Sarai his wife, Behold now, I know that thou art a fair woman to look upon: 12 Therefore it shall come to pass, when the Egyptians shall see thee, that they shall say, This is his wife: and they will kill me, but they will save thee alive. 13 Say, I pray thee, thou art my sister: that it may be well with me for thy sake; and my soul shall live because of thee.”

• These are Abram's first recorded words in the Bible. [Pause]
• In Canaan he called on the LORD. In Egypt his first words are a plan to deceive, spoken to Sarai, not to God.
• Listen to the pronouns: “they will kill me… well with me… my soul shall live.”
• A half-truth (she was his half-sister, Genesis 20:12) used as a whole lie.
• Sarai never speaks in this passage. She has no voice. She just bears the cost.

Genesis 12:14–16 “14 And it came to pass, that, when Abram was come into Egypt, the Egyptians beheld the woman that she was very fair. 15 The princes also of Pharaoh saw her, and commended her before Pharaoh: and the woman was taken into Pharaoh’s house. 16 And he entreated Abram well for her sake: and he had sheep, and oxen, and he asses, and menservants, and maidservants, and she asses, and camels.”

• The plan works. Abram's flocks grow, but prosperity is not God's approval.
• Meanwhile, the woman through whom the promised seed must come is in Pharaoh's house.

The Point

Sin can pay before it costs.

Application

• To the one who obeyed and then the bottom fell out: famine after faithfulness is not evidence God failed you.
• Worship goes quiet before integrity goes missing. Abram's altar stopped before his lie started.
• For the professional: the shaded number, the convenient omission, the “technically true” answer usually starts in a season where God goes unmentioned.
• Self-protection always bills someone else. Abram prospered; Sarai was exposed. Who is your Sarai?

Bottom line: It was never your grip. It was His.

Transition: Abram cannot rescue the promise he just endangered. So the LORD steps back into the story.

3. Grace rescues the person who could not rescue himself.

Genesis 12:17–20

Explanation

Genesis 12:17 “17 And the LORD plagued Pharaoh and his house with great plagues because of Sarai Abram’s wife.”

• “And the LORD…” The first time He's named since verse 8, and He's the subject of the sentence. Not Abram. Not Sarai. The LORD.
• “Sarai Abram's wife”: God names the truth Abram hid.
• Plagues on Pharaoh to free God's people from Egypt: a preview of the Exodus this family's descendants will one day live.

The promise turned upside down

Genesis 12:3 “3 And I will bless them that bless thee, and curse him that curseth thee: and in thee shall all families of the earth be blessed.”

• Abram was called to bless every family on earth.
• The first foreign family he meets gets plagues instead of blessing, because of his lie.
• When God's people walk in fear and deceit, the very people we were sent to bless get hurt.

Genesis 12:18–19 “18 And Pharaoh called Abram, and said, What is this that thou hast done unto me? why didst thou not tell me that she was thy wife? 19 Why saidst thou, She is my sister? so I might have taken her to me to wife: now therefore behold thy wife, take her, and go thy way.”

• A pagan king rebukes the man of God, and Abram has no answer. Not one word.
• Have we heard Pharaoh's question before?

Genesis 3:13 “13 And the LORD God said unto the woman, What is this that thou hast done? And the woman said, The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat.”

• Same question. In Eden, the first man hid and covered. Now the father of faith hides and covers.
• God called Abram to begin undoing the curse, and the curse is still inside the man God chose.

Genesis 12:20 “20 And Pharaoh commanded his men concerning him: and they sent him away, and his wife, and all that he had.”

• Abram leaves intact: wife restored, promise preserved. He contributed nothing to the rescue but the need for it.

The pattern repeats

Genesis 20:2; Genesis 26:7

• Years later, Abraham does it again. Then Isaac, the son, tells the same lie.
• Remaining sin doesn't retire just because you've walked with God for years.
• What we model becomes what our children repeat. Isaac learned this in his father's tent.

The way back

Genesis 13:1–4

• He “went down” into Egypt. Now he “went up.”
• Back to the very altar he left, and the LORD's name is on his lips again.

The Point

The promise was never held up by Abram’s grip. It was held up by God’s.

Application

• Your Egypt doesn't cancel God's promise, but it does cost the people around you. Ask who's been hurt by your fear, and make it right.
• What pattern are your kids learning in your tent? The habits you excuse, they will inherit.
• If you've wandered, go back to the altar. Not a performance you have to nail first. Call on the name of the LORD again.

Bottom line: It was never your grip. It was His.

Transition: Abram couldn’t hold the promise. So let me tell you about the One who did.

Conclusion — He Will Hold Me Fast

So what is the promise that holds when we don't?

Abram's promise was a land, a son, and a blessing for the nations. If you belong to Christ, that promise is yours.

And if ye be Christ's, then are ye Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise.  — Galatians 3:29

And the promise isn't held up by your grip. It's held up by His. When your grip slips —

There is no condemnation.

• Your failure doesn't reverse your justification (Romans 8:1 “1 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.”

He finishes what He started.

Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:  — Philippians 1:6

No one can take you out of His hand.

And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.  — John 10:28

• — not your fear, not your Egypt, not anything else.

Nothing can separate you

For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.  — Romans 8:38–39

• Abram kept the promise; Sarai still paid. God disciplines the children He keeps (Heb. 12:6).The promise holds — but it doesn't make sin free.

The God who kept Abram in Egypt has promised that nothing, not even your worst failure, will take you out of His hand.

Good News

Your grip failed. His never has.

Abram didn’t pray his way out of Egypt. No altar. No calling on the LORD. Yet God stepped in, because Abram already belonged to Him, and God keeps His own.

That’s the pattern of the gospel: God moves first. He doesn’t wait for us to clean up Egypt. He comes down into it.

John 1:14

While we were still scheming, self-protecting, and silent toward Him, God Himself came down. Not to a breadbasket, but to a manger. Not to be served, but to rescue a people who kept endangering the covenant.

Galatians 3:16

Abram couldn’t hold the promise. Christ became the promise, and held it for us.

Romans 5:8

But His kindness is not permission to stay in Egypt. It’s an invitation to come home.

Romans 2:4

Gospel Call

The question this morning is not whether your faith is strong enough to keep you. Abram’s wasn’t. God kept him anyway. If you’ve never trusted Christ: God has already come down for you. Repent of trusting yourself, and believe on the One who held the promise you never could (Mark 1:15; Acts 20:21). If you’re His and you’ve wandered: you are still His. Come back to the altar. Confess it, turn from it, and call on the name of the LORD again (1 John 1:9).

Conclusion: He Will Hold Me Fast

So what is the promise that holds when we don’t?

Abram’s promise was a land, a son, and a blessing for the nations. If you belong to Christ, that promise is yours.

Galatians 3:29 “29 And if ye be Christ’s, then are ye Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”

And the promise isn’t held up by your grip. It’s held up by His. When your grip slips:

• There is no condemnation. Your failure doesn’t reverse your justification (Romans 8:1).
• He finishes what He started (Philippians 1:6).
• No one can take you out of His hand (John 10:28).
• Nothing can separate you: not your fear, not your Egypt, not anything else (Romans 8:38–39).
• The promise holds, but it doesn’t make sin free. Abram kept the promise; Sarai still paid. God disciplines the children He keeps (Hebrews 12:6).

The God who kept Abram in Egypt has promised that nothing, not even your worst failure, will take you out of His hand.

Transition: Some of you know a hymn that says it better than I can.

It was first written in 1906 by Ada Habershon, and many of us sing it today in the arrangement by Matt Merker. Listen to the words as the application of everything we’ve just seen in Abram.

Bottom line: It was never your grip. It was His.

He will hold me fast, He will hold me fast; For my Saviour loves me so, He will hold me fast.